Monday, May 21, 2007

Verbal Abuse

I am not a really Religious Person, I found this and it is so true:
If you are getting your Self Esteen beat down, and you no longer know where "you" went Read This please. Get to hell out before you can't leave.

The Bible clearly warns us about the dangers of an angry man. Proverbs 22:24 says, "Do not associate with a man given to anger; or go with a hot-tempered man." And Proverbs 29:22 says, "An angry man stirs up strife, and a hot-tempered man abounds in transgression."

It is not God's will for you to be in a verbally abusive relationship.
""Those angry and critical words will destroy your confidence and self-esteem"" Being submissive in a marriage relationship does not mean allowing yourself to be verbally beaten by your partner.
1 Peter 3:1 does teach that wives, by being submissive to their husbands, may win them to Christ by their behavior. But it does not teach that they must allow themselves to be verbally or physically abused.

Read it more than once, You are better than those ugly words, you do not deserve to be called every dirty name in the book.
Yes you do things the right way, you are a good MOM
Yes you clean the house perfectly,
Yes you are a good cook,
Yes you are not fat,
You have to take care of her" Since she is all SHE has.

And have a good day, don't let him ruin another one of your days, he has made you feel bad about your self to many days.

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Living Day to Day with a Control Freak

Isn't some thing to live 30 years with a Abusive person and only the last 10 years I have actually learned so much about Verbal Abuse, controling, manipulation. I also have learned I am his slave. No matter what I do is never good enough.

I am burnt out, he thinks I should work, cook, clean, do the business books, do all the yard work, look perfect, even thought he is gross. And then still be the wonderful sex partner.
And still have the nerve to Critisize

What a joke. and what does he do, F all. Goes cruizing with his losser friends.
Or pretends he is so busy.
My son and I are the slaves, It sits on the couch and that brings more and more anger to me and my son, we both dislike him very much and do not want to do things with him cause he is not fun at all. He is always trying to control, or manipulate things that are good for his need. Never things of others, only what is best for him.
Does this life sound familiar to others.