Abuser "Who is he mean to and Who Is he Nice To"

Selective who the abuser is nice to, he is so charming to some of my friends and tells me I spend to much time with those people. Since everything is about "Him" you know
Nice to my sisters and there husbands. I have relatives who he goes to visit, and they even say to me what a nice guy he is.

• Nice to my family, acts pretty abuse towards me when my Mom is here.

Imitating me very loudly how I talk, laugh, making snide remarks about how I cook.

• So nice to other women it is sickening and quite a joke.
• Abusers need to control there wife, kids, dogs, but do not control there own ugly, mean, behavior.

Some of the things Abuse use for excuses why they are Abusers:

• Mostly tell there spouse she is the crazy one, you can't take a joke, you are to sensitive and many more lies
• There excuses range from Booze, Drugs, they are mentally ill, Bipolar, quit booze so now you have to live with a dry drunk, since they refuse to get any help, since you are the crazy one, and they are not the alcohlic.
  3% of the population are abusive in Canada.

He or She chooses the ABUSIVE behavior, and to whom he is ABUSIVE too.

Stress and conflict are a normal part of life

No one deserves to be hit, kicked, hurt, screamed at, called ugly names, belittled, told they cannot do anything right, bullied.

Making all kinds of stupid rules, then changing the rules so he can have a little flip out.

So we live in all this crazy making day in and day out. That way your life is off balance and nothing makes sense any more.

You finally buy into all the ugy things he tells you about you, and then you go into isolations, since he told you, you are nothing but a piece of garbage so many times.

YOU BOUGHT IT & STAY HOME, BUT YOU CAN'T EVEN CLEAN THE HOUSE RIGHT, OR COOK RIGHT.

SO WHERE DOES THAT LEAVE US, NO SELF ESTEEM.

Don't listen to that asshole, go get showered up, put some nice clothes on, get to hell out, make a plan, so you can escape for him and all those ugly words.

Scariest thing you will ever do, but the happiest moment of your life to get a life again for you and your children.

Women's actions do not deserve to be Abused.

Emotional and Verbal abuse is as bad physical abuse you can see the bruises, with the verbal abuse you can't see the broken hearts.

Let me know how you got out and how HAPPY you are to be FREE.

Marie